Parenting today is more difficult than ever. Divorce, long work hours, and social commitments all pull parents away from the relationship with their children. And yet, in our politically correct, progressive society we are no longer pet owners, we are "pet parents." We no longer live with a dog or cat, they are our "fur children."
I refer to my dogs as my "kids" and, just as I did with my two human children, I take their education seriously. It is my responsibility to make sure that they behave when in public, that they are not a nuisance to my neighbors, and that they get along with others. These are the same goals I had when parenting my human children.
My human children went to preschool, kindergarten, elementary, middle school, high school and finally, college. If we are going to have " fur kids" it is our responsibility to make sure that they are as educated and well behaved as our two legged kids. As "pet parents" we should enroll our puppies in a puppy class so that they can attend preschool and kindergarten. Their elementary education should include a manners class, beginner obedience class, or similar curriculum, where they learn how to behave around people and other "kids." Higher education is also available!
I see so many clients struggling to balance their lives with their dog's basic needs and education. Comments such as "I just don't have the time" or "I didn't know it was going to be this much work" are heard weekly. The similarities between poorly behaved children and out of control dogs cannot be ignored. What is a "pet parent" to do?
Set clear rules and make sure everyone understands why they are important. Be ready to a help your dog learn what you want and expect from him, through a system of rewards, instead of trying to punish him for what he doesn't understand, or worse yet, has never learned! Know what "normal" behavior is for your dog's breed and age, and make sure that he has aerobic and mental exercise that meets his needs, not yours.
Sound impossible? Welcome to "pet parenting!" You are responsible for your "kid's" behavior. Need help? That's where we come in. As teachers we can help you set realistic expectations. Through private coaching lessons or day training we can tutor your fur child. And yes, their is even boarding school if you are going away. Together we can make a difference, one " fur kid" at a time.
